在毕业的晚宴和早晨的典礼上,我们听到了许多美好的见证、劝勉和祷告。当我回到IIIM办公室与同事分享到晚宴时,Dr. Kapic精彩幽默的Top 10 ways you could squander your education的内容后,有人说你应该和大家分享一下。或许这个10大提醒对我们成人的基督徒人生,也是一个极好提醒。我没有像女儿那样记了完整的笔记,只有十大提醒的字眼。如果有什么杜撰和误解,全都是记忆失丧的错。有一点保证没有记错,他们2011届的毕业生的经文是“[上帝]所积蓄的一切智慧知识,都在他[基督]里面藏著。”(西2.3)。
附上Dr. Kapic original notes, which slightly different from his speech
Ten ways to Squander your Covenant College Education
Dr. Kelly M. Kapic
10) Laugh: Please don’t start taking yourselves too seriously. Laugh at yourself, and invite others to as well.This can save your friendships, your marriages, your lives.Please don’t forget this in the future, for you are the same people that watched hours of Brian Regan and Nacho Libre, laughed at fart sounds, embarrassed yourself on that date, and some of you even secretly liked Justin Beiber.Seriously, don’t underestimate the redemptive significance of laughter – listen for the laughter of heaven.And please don’t take yourself too seriously, because if you do, you will misunderstand the kingdom and your place in it.
9) Curiosity: don’t stop questioning, reading, learning, growing, revising.Discover the joy of reading what you want, not what you have to.Read and think broadly.Do not simply read people you already know agree with you – read those who will challenge your thinking. Ask the questions others won’t, but which need to be asked.Be curious, not apart from God, but with him.He is not afraid of your curiosity.This is his world, his reality.Over: Don’t think your education is over.
8) Drink: Drink bad beer, cheap wine, or flavored coffee.Listen, contract is a good thing, but now it is over. Many of you will now occasionally drink.So you need to learn to drink responsibly.That means both, ‘don’t be stupid and drink and drive or drink too much.’But it also means, if you are going to drink, don’t drink bad beer, cheap wine, or flavored coffee.
7) Church: Critiquing it, but not loving it.Root yourself in a local church, and draw deeply from its nourishment and protection.I have found through the years, that for many graduates the first 6-12 months after leaving college are some of the hardest on their faith.Struggles come; isolation can set in as you move to a new place.The most important thing my wife and I recommend to graduates is to plug into a local church as soon as possible.Don’t just critique the church, love it.Similarly, don’t just hate Institutions: All institutions are broken, so don’t let that keep you from them. Be patient, invest, and take ownership, rather than simply staying on the outside critiquing.
6) Presence: To reduce your relationship to mediated experiences (iPhone, etc.,) while neglecting the value of physical space, time, and presence with those God puts in your life.Part of your education was that physicality matters; dont forget the importance of embodiement, and that includes valuing true presence.It also means things like going not only to Google museums, but also to actual museums.
5) Suffer: Treat people’s suffering as an idea to be pondered, or a philosophical question to be answered, but not something that you enter into, live with, and struggle through.Analyze: To find yourself always analyzing, but never engaging. I been so impressed with so many of you who get this at such a young age.Don’t let the worries of this world and the demands of your own life take that away from you.You and people you love will suffer, andq they don’t simply need a theological axiom, they need a theological life.Live your theology.
4) Job: if you don’t get a job, and live in your parents basement in five years, you are at great risk of squandering your Covenant College education.Listen, your parents love you, and they love when you visit, but come on.Getting paid is a good thing.
3) Difference: Always be ready to learn from everyone.You squander your education if you fail to see how much you can learn from those who didn’t go to college, or if you fail to see how much you can learn from non-Christians and those who are different from you. Celebrate difference.Cultivate friendships with people who are different than you.Differences include socio-economic, ethnic, educational, political, theological traditions, etc.Don’t politizize your friendships and find yourself only surrounded with people who echo your own thoughts.
2) Mystery: Never forget, mystery and ambiguity can be your friend, not always your enemy.Embrace the tension.You don’t know all the answers, and that is not Covenant’s fault.Your finitude is not a sin.Let the complexity, struggle, and mystery provoke worship of Christ, rather than drive you from him.
1) Grace: to remain only receiving grace, but failing to be a conduit of grace to others.
两年前,我读了卡森博士D. A. Carson的一本书The Difficult Doctrine of the Love of God,与我在这方面有些思想和实践有很强的共鸣。最近在网上发现了其中的一部中译本 (基于他原本在刊物上的内容),强烈的推荐给大家去消化和思想。如果你能够简单的在这里,或上我们的教会的博客留言,都是一同在爱中建立耶稣的教会。
——陈彪牧师
是谁曲解了神的爱?(卡森D. A. Carson)
──神的爱,这困难的教义(系列四之一)
On Distorting the Love of God──The Difficult Doctrine of the Love of God”(Bibliotheca Sacra, Vol.156, Jan-Mar 1999, number 621) 翻译:薪人